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How to Recognize and Release Holiday Judgment for Greater Peace and Connection<\/h1>\n

When you left your Thanksgiving or family celebration, did the car ride sound something like this\u2026<\/p>\n

\u201cI wished my mashed potatoes turned out better,\u201d <\/em>or \u201cUncle Steve\u2019s turkey was great\u201d, <\/em>or \u201cCousin\u2019s Bills stuffing could have used a little more salt.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

\u201cWhy did I say that thing to Grandma and get her all riled up?\u201d <\/em>or \u201cCan you believe what Uncle Frank said?\u201d <\/em>or \u201cCan you believe what Michelle was wearing?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

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If you had some version of this, you were not alone. Humans love to judge everything, and family gatherings often make your inner judge very active. It\u2019s like an uninvited guest who always shows up for the holidays. So, I want to share how to stop judging people with you.<\/p>\n

But here\u2019s the thing: Judgment isn\u2019t just about others. It starts with you.<\/p>\n

When I first started my apprenticeship with my mentor, don Jose Ruiz, the son of don Miguel Ruiz, author of The Four Agreements<\/em>, the first practice we explored was The Judge. The exercise was deceptively simple: write down every judgment you have about yourself, others, or your circumstances.<\/p>\n

I thought, \u201cThis will be easy. I\u2019m not that judgmental.<\/em>\u201d Spoiler alert: I was wrong. I had so many judgments.<\/h4>\n

As I began tracking my judgments, I noticed patterns. Most of my harshest judgments were aimed at myself, not others. I judged how I looked, how much I accomplished, what I ate, and even how much I slept. The list was endless.<\/p>\n

And here\u2019s what surprised me most: The judgments I had about others were often reflections of the judgments I had about myself. When someone did something that annoyed me, it usually pointed to something within me that I didn\u2019t like. It was quite the mirror.<\/p>\n

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For example, I was annoyed with a friend who was constantly late. The judgment sounded like, \u201cWhy can\u2019t they manage their time better?\u201d But when I dug deeper, I realized I was programmed that on-time was late and early was on-time. Whenever I wasn\u2019t \u201cearly,\u201d I would judge the shit out of myself because I didn\u2019t want to be \u201cpunished\u201d for being late and I realized I was doing that to others too. Because I had no idea what was making them \u201clate.\u201d<\/p>\n

In fact, one of my team members constantly showed up late. They would tell me they would be late, but it was getting to a point where I thought I had to say something. Fortunately, MaryBeth suggested I ask if everything was okay before telling them they were \u201cunreliable\u201d and not a \u201cteam player.\u201d<\/p>\n

And I am so grateful that I asked because I found out they were caring for their mom, who had early-onset dementia. And they were late that very morning because they couldn’t find their cat, which their mom had put in the freezer. (Thankfully, still very alive, just very cold.) So they were doing their best to care for them while also getting to work \u201con time.\u201d<\/p>\n

Wow, I’m so grateful MaryBeth taught me that curiosity is the cure to all frustrations, especially the ones created by your judge!<\/h4>\n

Can you imagine getting upset with someone over being a little bit late and then finding out it was because they needed a couple of extra minutes to care for a loved one?<\/p>\n

Yeah, I would have felt like a big asshole. That is what your Judge can do to you and why I want to share how to stop judging people with you.<\/p>\n

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\u2744\ufe0f Why Judgment Becomes So Loud During the Holidays<\/strong><\/h3>\n

The holidays are a time of joy and connection\u2014but they\u2019re also a perfect storm for judgment to run wild. Why?<\/p>\n

\ud83d\udcca The Numbers Tell the Story:<\/strong> Studies show that over 88% of Americans feel stressed during the holidays, with financial pressures, time demands, heightened expectations, cultural conditioning, and family tension leading the list. This stress often triggers heightened judgment as a way to manage (or mismanage) those feelings.<\/p>\n

The holidays are also deeply emotional. For many, they bring up feelings of nostalgia, loss, or loneliness, making it harder to stay centered. When emotions run high, so does the tendency to judge.<\/p>\n

Recognizing these triggers can help you pause before falling into old judgment patterns. Instead of letting the season\u2019s pressures overwhelm you, take a breath and remind yourself that holidays are not about perfection but presence, connection, and love.<\/p>\n

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\ud83d\udd0e How to Recognize When Judgment Shows Up and How to Stop Judging People (including yourself)<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Recognizing judgment when it creeps into your thoughts is the first step toward releasing it. Judgment often masquerades as logical reasoning or self-protection, but it can leave you feeling drained, disconnected, or stuck. Here\u2019s how to spot it:<\/p>\n

1\ufe0f\u20e3 Self-Criticism:<\/strong> Judgment often starts within. Do you catch yourself saying things like, \u201cWhy did I do that?\u201d or \u201cI\u2019ll never be good enough\u201d? These thoughts are classic signs that your inner critic is at work, and it\u2019s worth asking yourself: Is this thought helping or hurting me? What am I truly feeling beneath this judgment?<\/em><\/p>\n

2\ufe0f\u20e3 Negative Commentary About Others:<\/strong> Do you mentally critique someone\u2019s behavior, appearance, or choices? \u201cCan you believe they wore that?\u201d or \u201cWhy didn\u2019t they help more?\u201d or Why didn\u2019t they do this?\u201d or \u201cThey always ruin everything!\u201d These thoughts often reflect unmet expectations or unresolved feelings within yourself. Ask yourself, is this about the other person, or is it reflecting something I\u2019m unhappy about in myself?<\/em><\/p>\n

3\ufe0f\u20e3 Comparison:<\/strong> Social media and holiday gatherings are ripe for comparison traps. If you notice yourself thinking, \u201cTheir decorations look better,\u201d or \u201cThey\u2019ve got it all figured out,\u201d pause and reflect: Is this comparison serving me?<\/em><\/p>\n

\ud83c\udf31 Research Says:<\/strong> Studies show that cultivating awareness of judgment through mindfulness can decrease stress levels by up to 35%. When you recognize judgment as it happens, you create a space to respond differently\u2014choosing curiosity, compassion, or simply letting go.<\/p>\n

The more you practice identifying these cues, the more empowered you will be to interrupt the cycle of judgment before it takes hold. Over time, this awareness will become second nature, leaving more room for understanding, connection, and peace.<\/p>\n

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\ud83c\udf1f A Final Thought<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Judgment is a natural part of being human. But when you become aware of it, you reclaim your power to choose how you respond. Imagine leaving your next family gathering with a full heart instead of a list of grievances. That\u2019s the freedom that comes from releasing judgment.<\/p>\n

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P.S.<\/strong><\/h4>\n

If the \u201cjudge\u201d inside you has been working overtime\u2014whether judging yourself or others\u2014this is your opportunity to shift into freedom and alignment and learn how to stop judging people. Our \ud83e\udd0d White Light Special<\/strong> is here to help you release judgment and ignite compassion this holiday season. For just $24<\/strong>, you\u2019ll receive:<\/p>\n

\ud83d\udc96 Knowing and Living Your Values Course<\/a>:<\/strong> A 10-day journey to uncover your core values, helping you release self-criticism and live with intention.<\/p>\n

\u2744\ufe0f Holiday Boundaries Bootcamp:<\/strong> A 5-day experience to set values-driven boundaries, so you can honor your authentic self and protect your peace during the holidays.<\/p>\n

\ud83d\udcd9 Permission to Be Human<\/a> (Audio & e-book):<\/strong> A compassionate guide to letting go of judgment and embracing your perfectly imperfect self.<\/p>\n

\u2728 Give yourself the gift of letting go this holiday season. Step into 2025 free from judgment and fully aligned with your values.<\/p>\n

Grab your White Light Deal here.<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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