Toltec Wisdom Gained from don Miguel Ruiz

Transform Your Life: Wisdom from don Miguel Ruiz and Toltec Traditions

Over the holiday and into the new year, I had the humbling experience of traveling to Teotihuacán, Mexico, with Don Miguel Ruiz and his sons, Miguel Jr. and Jose to gain Toltec Wisdom. As a world-renowned author, speaker, shaman,

and healer, don Miguel is best known for his global bestseller, The Four Agreements.

I discovered his work when I was in college and that very book was one of my stocking stuffers. There was something that lit me up about the concept that if I could do four simple but very complex things, I could live a life of freedom. They were to: 1) Be impeccable with your word. 2) Don’t take anything personally. 3) Don’t make assumptions. 4) Always do your best.

Over time, like many good concepts, I forgot about the book completely. I grew into my age and career and lost that type of reflection and connection with myself. Then after a significant internal evolution in 2019, I came across an event where don Miguel and his sons were the main attraction. Something inside me and my partner said, “Yes! Let’s do this!”

We both fell in love with the Ruiz family during the Gathering of the Shamans in Sedona. Their presence, their energy, and the love that runs through their veins are so unconditionally given to every living being around them. After hearing them all speak, and soaking in their good vibrations, we just knew there was more wisdom that we were open to gain.

Thankfully, we learned of their “The Dawn of a New Day” 5-day power journey in Mexico to live our lives with Gratitude, Love, Loyalty, and Justice, Beginning with Ourselves and continuing with our loved ones.

This life-changing program helped us return to our innate wisdom and live our lives based on truth. The Ruiz family guided us to understand that the agreements we make are ultimately about seeing our whole reality through the eyes of truth. The result of practicing these agreements helped us move into complete acceptance of ourselves just the way we are and the complete acceptance of everybody else just as they are. And while we’re still on a daily journey to live this way, the reward for doing that work is eternal happiness.

And for me, the greatest happiness is sharing life-altering lessons with others who are curious and open to receiving.

So here are the 11 greatest pieces of Toltec wisdom I gained from the Ruiz family and the Toltec Traditions:

Every time you judge someone, you’re punishing them for agreements they never made. People prefer to judge other people’s homes instead of changing their own. Once we realize that we can’t control anyone else, then we’re free from the war.

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent. If you don’t judge yourself, no one else can judge you.

When someone hurts you, you begin to use those thoughts to hurt yourself. We are constantly punishing ourselves for not being perfect in the eyes of others.

Guilt is punishing yourself for something you wanted to do, and Redemption is when you forgive yourself and change. It’s normal to feel pain, but you don’t have to hold onto it.

You are only responsible for your own story. Let yourself go of the burden of thinking otherwise.

To forgive is to accept. A belief only exists for as long as you say yes to it. Forgive yourself for ever saying yes to it. Healing is when the past doesn’t corrupt the present.

Become the love of your own life – marry yourself! If you can’t stand being alone by yourself then the relationship between mind and heart is off. Connect those two and fall in love with your perfection! Then you get to feel at home wherever you are because your body is your one true home.

Truth is a feeling – a vibration. It’s not a war between love and hate, it’s a war between truth and lies. Get clear on the difference and live in the truth.

A moment of clarity followed by action becomes a pivotal moment of our life. A moment of clarity without action just passes in the wind.

Love is an energy that allows us to create a bond. Love is contagious. There’s no retiring from being love. So get over yourself to deliver love.

You heal the world by healing your own world. We all have a world around us that impacts so many lives outside of your own. By opening your heart to pure love, you help others to see that possibility for themselves. A true healer is someone who heals themselves of their own lies. You can change the world by changing your own world.

Should you connect with any of this Toltec wisdom or the Four Agreements above, I encourage you to listen to your intuition and go on your power journey to discover where you are protecting your own pain so you can deny yourself the bliss that exists on earth today.

Deep down, you know the truth. You simply need to listen and return to its calling.

Will you join me?